谁活该？

你是否曾有过这样的想法: "活该，他都有今天咯!"？

你可以选择在他人得意时不为他锦上添花，但不要在他落魄时对他落井下石。
你可以不必雪中送炭，却也无需雪上加霜。
你当然可以不用心存善念，可是千万别心怀恶念。

你又是否相信世间有因果循环？

Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present

A friend forwarded the following to me. Very meaningful..

Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
Don't have negative thoughts or things you cannot control.
Dream more while you are awake.
Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.
No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn.
Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.

If we could practise at least one of the many phrases listed above, I guess we'll definitely be happier :)

Sixth session

Time flies, about 1.5 months ago, I went for the First session and now I have already attended the 6th session last week, going for the 7th in the coming week.

Outcome has been positive. I come to realise that issues revolving around me are actually inter-connecting. Well, given time, I am sure I will find ways to resolve them all. Be optimistic and have faith in myself will help me get to my goal :)

Wish me luck!

遺傳學

A friend forwarded this piece of info to me. Not sure how true is this, hahaha...

這重要！為人父母一定要看。


滿有趣的遺傳學,
各位!不要再罵自己的兒子了, 看看內容吧~~

遺傳學精要

決定智商的八對基因全部都是位於
X 染色體上面，男生是 XY，
X 是來自母親，
Y是來自父親。所以男生的智商全部都是來自母親的遺傳 ，然後女生是 XX，!
所以女生的智商是父親跟母親各有一半影響。

女生的智商是父親母親都有影響，所以會有中和的效應。
女生智商的分布會呈現自然分布
(normal distribution)，就是? ? 鐘狀 ，中? ○怞h，兩邊較少。
男生因為是只受一方影響，所以智商分布會偏向在兩個極端。也就是說， 男生天才比較多，但是同時蠢材之中也是男生特別多。


這個故事告訴我們「 你要判斷一個男生聰不聰明，看他媽媽就知道。」可是，你要怎麼判斷男生的媽媽聰不聰明？
......然後我們用機率來算：

生男孩的機率
=
1/2；生女孩的機率
=1/2。

生男孩的時候, 母親對男孩智商的影響力
= 1
生女孩的時候，母親對女孩智商的影響力
=
1/2
所以說母親跟父親對於下一代智商的影響力
(期望值 )的比例是

1*1/2
+ 1/2*1/2 : 0*1/2 + 1/2*1/2 = 0.75： 0.25
= 3：1
= 母：父

所以說，如果你是很笨的男生，你千萬要娶一個聰明的女生。這樣你小孩翻盤的機率還有七成五，人生還是充滿了希望。

當女生看到一個男生很聰明，他父親也聰明的機率可能是 = 0%
(應該說，就算他父親很聰明，也對他是沒有影響的)，可是他母親很聰明的機率是 100%。

所以說，如果妳在考慮要嫁給一個很聰明的男生的時候，你就要小心他媽媽，可能會是一個很會算計的婆婆。

反之，當你看到一個男生很笨的時候， 沒錯，他通常會很有錢，這是上帝的安排，上帝為了不讓人類滅亡，所以他會讓很笨的人很有錢，這樣他才能娶到聰明的女生。

總之， 當你看到很笨的男生的時候，不要猶豫，嫁給他。不要覺得你是為了他的錢，你要跟自己說，你是為了要改善人類未來的基因。

以上三個結論為： 人類智商理性鐵蛋定律

我重複一次：
判斷男生智商，看媽媽 → 媽媽聰明 ，兒子聰明。
笨男生無論如何也要娶聰明女生→改良品種 。

女生不要嫁聰明男生，應該嫁給笨男生→免得有個聰明厲害的婆婆。

Overly eventful

I regretted saying my 2008 wasn't an eventful year. My 2009 so far has been very eventful, overly eventful I would say. If you read my posts, you know what I mean.

So many things have happened in the past few months. The past few weeks have been even more dramatic. Life is really a roller coaster, but mine only dives deeper, I have yet to see it coming up. Maybe it did, but soon after it came up for a bit, it went back down again. (Arghh.. stop being so negative!)

I have never been through so much emotional fluctuations in the past. Adapting to a new lifestyle has been quite a tough task. Trying to find the lost bearings in life has not been easy as well. Knowing that you are, but learning not to be emotionally dependent on someone or something has been my biggest challenge. If anyone has any tip or recommendation to help me get to what I struggle to achieve, please help...

On a separate note, I also noticed that I wrote many boring posts lately - boring because they were all related to my emotions and some were very negative too. When can I write something interesting again? Now I feel bored with myself :(